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Run escape – Correct or not?

What you people think about love which ends at escaping from home?
I don’t know why they take such a decision thinking it as bravery. I don’t think it is called bravery. Escaping does not need any guts. Instead why can’t they fight parents? Even i don’t support parents who stand against love. Why the hell they cant leave the decision to the kids itself? Its their life and they are going to live with him/her throughout the life and not parents who are going to be them, may be only half the way.

Its utter foolishness to escape out and go somewhere hidden and hard to earn a new identity. Even it is foolishness parents say ” i will not let you take your own decision”. I hate both of them. Selfishness. The only thing they must be worried about is dignity and society. What the use of keeping the dignity only the people run escape. Also what bother the stupid relatives? If one guy like a gal and vice versa and if they get married, why are you talking bad about their parents instead of praising them for doing a good job by letting their love a success. All you have one life, if you think you can blame the parents who support love, or blame people who love. Listen it is not a crime and even you all people are not perfect and are unfit to give any statement on anyone who does the above.

I know my intension cannot change our society, Indian culture, India, everything. Atleast next generation must be perfect.

P.S: This post is written on my own interest and not to tell false on those who strongly believe love is a crime, sin, hell, whatever. Also doesn’t mean i support Love and Love marriage.

Title: Selerines @ sivakumar stlye.

Love- is it gud or bad??

Well in this post i would like to share what i think about love. Most of the time ppl fall in love while in school or in college. Love in school i call it as an infactuation. May be 10/100 be matured n true. I dont know wat makes ppl fall in love. I feel, first he/she must have guts. Which i think i dont have. But i do admire ppl who love. I will say few reason why ppl dont love.

1. Fear

2. Worried about society (family n friends) - Obvious ppl who don like us easily pass bad comments if we are in love, Which really hurt.

3. Thinking He/She will not accept the proposal.

4. Thinking about family background. ( In some of their home there might be no restriction, but some parents might strongly oppose. We ppl dont know the future reaction of parents n think that they’ll not allow n keep quite. In some case,  relations might create problems- its bcos they dont have nothing else to talk about).

5. Fear of losing dignity( Some ppl think if we go n propose he/she might reject n others will make fun of it badly n thus losing fame which we had).

Well, talking in positive view.  I think we wil have a good reliable compony, share our feel freely.Enjoy life. (i don have experience, so cant comment much in this). This is for the ppl who think not to love,Don waste life n oppurtunities. Only one life, don care about anyone,  just go for it.

Do u think arranged marriage is a better choice? NO. simply u see list  of photos n select one. then it goes to other side, he/she has to accept/like u. Otherwise you select next. Astrology matching is another factor. Dont know who started this silly thing. I know Marc hate this procedure of arranged marrriage. Thinking in this view its better to have love marriage.

Now the negative side, I have seen many ppl has broken up their love , in college if the watchman  see them talking , he gets involved and the pair gets suspended for a month. Have to bare lot of pains and waste time some times pair gets parted cos of family.

If they are strong in thier love then , have to run n marriage(ive seen in many movies). Fight with parents etc,etc.

So confusing. i know Bharath  , Naresh , and some of my friends are confused like me.

what you ppl think?? is it correct or not??