Well in this post i would like to share what i think about love. Most of the time ppl fall in love while in school or in college. Love in school i call it as an infactuation. May be 10/100 be matured n true. I dont know wat makes ppl fall in love. I feel, first he/she must have guts. Which i think i dont have. But i do admire ppl who love. I will say few reason why ppl dont love.
1. Fear
2. Worried about society (family n friends) - Obvious ppl who don like us easily pass bad comments if we are in love, Which really hurt.
3. Thinking He/She will not accept the proposal.
4. Thinking about family background. ( In some of their home there might be no restriction, but some parents might strongly oppose. We ppl dont know the future reaction of parents n think that they’ll not allow n keep quite. In some case, relations might create problems- its bcos they dont have nothing else to talk about).
5. Fear of losing dignity( Some ppl think if we go n propose he/she might reject n others will make fun of it badly n thus losing fame which we had).
Well, talking in positive view. I think we wil have a good reliable compony, share our feel freely.Enjoy life. (i don have experience, so cant comment much in this). This is for the ppl who think not to love,Don waste life n oppurtunities. Only one life, don care about anyone, just go for it.
Do u think arranged marriage is a better choice? NO. simply u see list of photos n select one. then it goes to other side, he/she has to accept/like u. Otherwise you select next. Astrology matching is another factor. Dont know who started this silly thing. I know Marc hate this procedure of arranged marrriage. Thinking in this view its better to have love marriage.
Now the negative side, I have seen many ppl has broken up their love , in college if the watchman see them talking , he gets involved and the pair gets suspended for a month. Have to bare lot of pains and waste time some times pair gets parted cos of family.
If they are strong in thier love then , have to run n marriage(ive seen in many movies). Fight with parents etc,etc.
So confusing. i know Bharath , Naresh , and some of my friends are confused like me.
what you ppl think?? is it correct or not??
February 28th, 2008 |
