Run escape – Correct or not?
What you people think about love which ends at escaping from home?
I don’t know why they take such a decision thinking it as bravery. I don’t think it is called bravery. Escaping does not need any guts. Instead why can’t they fight parents? Even i don’t support parents who stand against love. Why the hell they cant leave the decision to the kids itself? Its their life and they are going to live with him/her throughout the life and not parents who are going to be them, may be only half the way.
Its utter foolishness to escape out and go somewhere hidden and hard to earn a new identity. Even it is foolishness parents say ” i will not let you take your own decision”. I hate both of them. Selfishness. The only thing they must be worried about is dignity and society. What the use of keeping the dignity only the people run escape. Also what bother the stupid relatives? If one guy like a gal and vice versa and if they get married, why are you talking bad about their parents instead of praising them for doing a good job by letting their love a success. All you have one life, if you think you can blame the parents who support love, or blame people who love. Listen it is not a crime and even you all people are not perfect and are unfit to give any statement on anyone who does the above.
I know my intension cannot change our society, Indian culture, India, everything. Atleast next generation must be perfect.
P.S: This post is written on my own interest and not to tell false on those who strongly believe love is a crime, sin, hell, whatever. Also doesn’t mean i support Love and Love marriage.
Title: Selerines @ sivakumar stlye.
July 21st, 2008 at 1:17 am
oh k..i wil hide it soon..thanks da..
July 21st, 2008 at 3:00 am
If you love each other truly then face all the problems with full courage, otherwise just be separated… Thats it…
Time pass love s**ks…
Time pass *itches s**ks…
Betraying *itches s**ks…
A big middle finger to those *itches….
:::: *ss*oles ::::
Hats off to real love….
I hope that those *itches don’t change their husbands at regular intervals…
Hahaha no words to express my anger.. Ohhhh Ohhhhhh!!!!!!
A BIG alert to U.*.A
July 21st, 2008 at 3:09 am
If you people don’t have courage to face problems, then why should you love and waste others life… All are thinking that life is that much simple… There are many f**king cases in this f**king world..
1.) Loving each others for some time, then getting separated without proper reason – Mostly that middle finger goes into the mouth of a boy, especially in this case.
2.) Loving each other for some time, then runway and getting married with full of blindness – Waste
3.) Loving each other truly and getting married after all fights and quarrels, then leading a successful life – Nice one
According to me, remaining are all s**ks/f**ks and so on….
‘A’ certificate
July 21st, 2008 at 11:22 am
Siva, stop removing random letters from your words. I can’t even make out what you’re trying to say.
India will never change. There will always be dumbass parents controlling their kid’ lives and people taking the cowardly way out by running away from them. Our society is structured this way with emphasis on arranged marriage. No one can change it.
July 21st, 2008 at 6:00 pm
@ Marc
I was the one who removed random letter da.
He has posted with full of emotions.
July 21st, 2008 at 8:34 pm
It’s better we face it rather than running.
July 22nd, 2008 at 1:42 am
@Marc : I posted fully.. Hari only moderated it da.. Whats their to make out. See the words that i used are Fucking, Sucks, Fucks, Bitches, Assholes and so on…. So please don’t point the finger at me….
I fully accept your views…. At the same time many people are not on the correct side right? Because of some ones mistake, all are getting affected….
July 22nd, 2008 at 10:48 am
These words are not considered foul language at all: sucks, bitches, assholes
His post does not make sense if you censor it.
July 25th, 2008 at 6:02 pm
i want to say one thing y cant we give up love for our parents, those who cared for us right from our birth and i think there is no other people in the world who could give us a wonderful future apart from our parent. i might be wrong to many r to all, but i strongly believe that apart from parent no one will give us the right path.
July 26th, 2008 at 6:38 am
No one is perfect Bharath, whether it’s our parents or we ourselves. This is just my view.
July 26th, 2008 at 1:40 pm
Bharath You must be one who don’t want to love. But still you have to understand loving is not a crime as a i told before. The solution is not leave your partner, if you are leaving your partner then you shouldn’t have loved.
July 26th, 2008 at 5:09 pm
bharath, no one should give up love for parents. The very concept is disgusting (and also the norm in India). You chose your own path and your own wife. If your parents don’t understand this, what can I say? Welcome to India!
July 26th, 2008 at 8:35 pm
@all
iam not against love, but what iam trying to say is for example two people loving each for 3 or may be 5. but there relationship with there parents is 20 years or may be more. if they could leave a 20 year relationship for a 3 year old one,y cant they leave a 3 year old love for a 20 years of care and affectionate relationship from there parents. anyway if they run i dont think so they will succeed how many of us seen or heard of people who ran has succeeded might be 3 out 10 but wat about rest. so instead wasting both life atleast one of them will be happy who knows after period of time both will be happy also and i dont think girls will remember there first love for long period of time, its always men who suffer but i dont want to get in to another controvers. so instead of running what i told is a better or successful suggestion.
but realy i dont want me or any of my friends to be in such a situation……………………………………
July 27th, 2008 at 5:56 am
This is not a choice between parents and your lover. You can have both. It is called life. Dumbass issues like this come up only in India. Think better.
You are assuming things about women that you have no way of verifying.
July 27th, 2008 at 7:03 am
Bharath, whether it’s a gal or guy, both are equal. So both the gender posses feelings. I don’t accept you saying that gals forget first love and guys don’t. Why don’t i flip the gender and say guys forget. Fine just leave it.
When the BF/GF has good job, good family and obviously you can convince the parents, provided when your at right age.
July 28th, 2008 at 2:15 am
According to me… If you like some thing do it, don’t bother about others… If parents are not even able to not understand our feelings and needs means then what’s the use of this life. If you want some thing fight for it till the last second, but running away and all seems to be really childish… Too bad then no use of loving each other for years and years..