Love- is it gud or bad??
Well in this post i would like to share what i think about love. Most of the time ppl fall in love while in school or in college. Love in school i call it as an infactuation. May be 10/100 be matured n true. I dont know wat makes ppl fall in love. I feel, first he/she must have guts. Which i think i dont have. But i do admire ppl who love. I will say few reason why ppl dont love.
1. Fear
2. Worried about society (family n friends) - Obvious ppl who don like us easily pass bad comments if we are in love, Which really hurt.
3. Thinking He/She will not accept the proposal.
4. Thinking about family background. ( In some of their home there might be no restriction, but some parents might strongly oppose. We ppl dont know the future reaction of parents n think that they’ll not allow n keep quite. In some case, relations might create problems- its bcos they dont have nothing else to talk about).
5. Fear of losing dignity( Some ppl think if we go n propose he/she might reject n others will make fun of it badly n thus losing fame which we had).
Well, talking in positive view. I think we wil have a good reliable compony, share our feel freely.Enjoy life. (i don have experience, so cant comment much in this). This is for the ppl who think not to love,Don waste life n oppurtunities. Only one life, don care about anyone, just go for it.
Do u think arranged marriage is a better choice? NO. simply u see list of photos n select one. then it goes to other side, he/she has to accept/like u. Otherwise you select next. Astrology matching is another factor. Dont know who started this silly thing. I know Marc hate this procedure of arranged marrriage. Thinking in this view its better to have love marriage.
Now the negative side, I have seen many ppl has broken up their love , in college if the watchman see them talking , he gets involved and the pair gets suspended for a month. Have to bare lot of pains and waste time some times pair gets parted cos of family.
If they are strong in thier love then , have to run n marriage(ive seen in many movies). Fight with parents etc,etc.
So confusing. i know Bharath , Naresh , and some of my friends are confused like me.
what you ppl think?? is it correct or not??
February 28th, 2008 at 9:00 am
according to me love is waste of time and reduction of “gethu”. . . So beware of love.
February 28th, 2008 at 9:26 am
Dude! You should have included my name along with Naresh and Bharath
February 28th, 2008 at 9:41 am
@Seeker
You fall in love with a new girl every month and you are talking like this ah!
February 28th, 2008 at 9:57 am
Wel Basically Hari u r an expert in confusing others but how come now u r confused in this matter is the only thing i dunno…….Might be bcoz of the fact that genius ppl like u get confused 4 silly matters as these… Hmmm anyway i don come into the debate of whether luv is good or bad.. The only thing i Feel is If u want t ve ur freedom beware of it….
February 28th, 2008 at 10:22 am
Ha, gautham. u too have a flashback. let all know it dude.
February 28th, 2008 at 4:02 pm
dude… Love is bad one… If you failed in love then it is difficult to come back to normal life.
February 28th, 2008 at 5:16 pm
@Naresh
But failing in love is itself a good thing,cos you never like to fall in love again
February 28th, 2008 at 5:20 pm
@Gautham
Dude there are also ppl who dare to fall again. Like someone. I dont want to mention.
February 28th, 2008 at 5:21 pm
hmmmm……hari i expected this post from u….anyway its depends upon people….and hw true they r, but what i feel is better avoid r keep it secret like gowtham
February 28th, 2008 at 5:22 pm
lol
February 29th, 2008 at 3:56 pm
I guess you are right about saying Love in School life is only infatuation (of course by experience), but as you grow up one begins to understand that it is not only about lust or roaming around the city on the bike or looking at each other for hours together with beach breeze hitting the side of your faces… Its about mutual understanding to the fullest and protecting each other maintaining the strong bond for eternity…
February 29th, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Atlast im getting a positive comment about love from Praveen. Cool.
February 29th, 2008 at 5:17 pm
I am not interested to talk about this because i am not a correct man for this .
March 2nd, 2008 at 2:39 pm
@gany
Machi….. This is over for you!!!!!!!!!
March 4th, 2008 at 1:01 pm
@ Gany
Really really too much da!!!!
Well I wont go against love because it is a nice feeling to experience da. But love at first sight and other stupid things, I wont believe in them. They are just fatal attraction. Falling in love just because the gal or guy is good looking! Bah.
For those who never experienced it truly, first do that and then comment.
And for Naresh, I think you are telling because you don’t have the will power and you know that what will I say here. So me not saying anything.
Love marriage is a better option compared to arranged as you get the chance to choose the gal of your type and whom you like. I can go on writing about it. So me stopping it here. LOL
March 5th, 2008 at 6:03 pm
hey actually i said this bcoz i din utilise my opportunity and missed a good girl in my life. just leave this here. no more questions about that.
March 6th, 2008 at 5:32 pm
@Gany
Dont worry , n dont feel u missed her. cos u have lot of time(understood).
March 7th, 2008 at 7:01 am
Don’t waste your golden time da………….
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March 7th, 2008 at 7:09 am
hey!!
the title of the topic is interesting since u asked whether “LOVE IS GOOD OR BAD”.Normally, if you ask me,i will tell love is good Since everyone incl.(u&me) “LOVE”S India,Indian Cricket team,etc..
But when i read article,I feel the same as Gany felt(I am not interested to talk about this because i am not a correct man for this).
March 13th, 2008 at 12:49 pm
Very hard to read the comments when you people are saying ‘u’ and ‘bcoz’. From what I understand you guys are using someone’s definition of love.
Love is what you define it to be. The End.